Have you ever looked in the mirror and been disappointed with who’s looking back, or even worse, horrified by who you’ve become? After awakening in his bathtub, practically dead and not sure how to face another day, Jesse decided he didn’t want to die - he wanted to live differently. From that moment on, he decided to figure out how to do just that, live differently, and to become the person who didn't waste his potential.
In 2017, after two decades of battling addiction, Jesse embarked on a life-altering path toward long-term addiction recovery. This podcast delves into the nuances distinguishing sobriety from long-term recovery and how to handle those pesky emotions active addiction helped keep at bay. Jesse shares his personal experience, transitioning from the depths of addiction to a proactive journey of recovery.
Discover the power of a growth mindset, the art of processing and releasing emotions, the significance of nurturing relationships, the importance of self-forgiveness, and building a fulfilling life beyond addiction - through a powerful Neuro-Linguistic Programming lens of life. Jesse’s story is a testament to the transformative power of recovery, providing insights and support for others on their journey.
Join Jesse as he navigates the complex yet rewarding terrain of long-term recovery, featuring real-life stories, expert recovery coaching advice, and a supportive community. This podcast is a beacon of hope and guidance for anyone seeking to turn the page from addiction to a life of purpose and joy.
Episodes
Tuesday Feb 08, 2022
Tuesday Feb 08, 2022
Ep #152 - The way you frame and reframe your "old" self and your "new" self will have dramatic effects on the energy you have toward your addiction recovery. Who you used to be versus who you are now - the two people are not the same even though it is still your face looking back at you in the mirror.
Frames are shortcuts that people use to help make sense of our complex world, they provide meaning through "selective simplification," and help us organize our world into explainable and understandable categories. Many of the generalizations we use: religion, gender, race, sexual orientation, age, ethnicity, nationalism, etc. are frames that help us place complex ideas into common, simplified categories and we as a species use these every day.
Frames help us to understand and interpret the world around us and explain that world to others. Morals, ethics, values, and beliefs are some of the frames we use to explain ourselves to others and even ourselves.
The issue that can arise is that when we explain, or label, our world we give meaning to what we can consciously pay attention too and eliminate other aspects of the world around us because it doesn't fit our cognitive bias, or because of the way our mind is programmed to delete, distort, and generalize.
Reframing is how we can take circumstances and events, whether past, present, or future, and choose an alternate perspective so that we can experience a more favorable position that leads us toward effective actions and more desirable outcomes/results.
Sound heady? Nah...after 151 episodes you are so ready for a deep dive into frames - because you are on this journey with us and have been preparing for this shifting of perspectives for quite some time. Now how is that for a positive reframe?
Just hit play and let's dive in with our open minds, hearts, and energies bringing everyone into the fold - you are in the right place, at the right time...right now.
Stand up, step forward, raise your hand - it's your turn, I will call on you.
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Thank you so much for listening and being a part of my tribe and this wonderfully supportive community. Here's to the ending of the stigma. No longer are we living in the shadows!
Also, please subscribe, rate, and review the show to help us spread the word about this awesome free content. Your simple action of rating and reviewing does wonders in helping others find the show. If you listen on iTunes I could really use the bump in their algorithm!
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Friday Feb 04, 2022
Friday Feb 04, 2022
Ep #151 - Oh, the places we will go! Oh, the places we have been.
Let us be informed by the past - content in the present - ambitiously discontent for our future.
150 episodes and counting. In this episode I go over how the show has changed and shifted and grown with me, with you - together - as a tribe of recovering individuals who utilize our combined energy to seek our best self, encourage others, and shatter the stigma that has been keeping those in the most need in the shadows for far to long. In aiding those seeking to journey from sobriety to addiction recovery, we must shine the spotlight on the mental health needs all around us.
Everyday is the best day of our lives when we wake up sober!
Let us all keep breaking "bad" habits, creating "good" habits - and supporting one another along the way in the most inclusive way we can, with the resources we have in this moment in our lives - knowing there is further growth ahead of us.
Let us embrace our lives with Gratitude, Humility, and Integrity!
Just hit play and let's dive in with our open minds, hearts, and energies bringing everyone into the fold - you are in the right place, at the right time...right now.
Stand up, step forward, raise your hand - it's your turn, I will call on you.
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Thank you so much for listening and being a part of my tribe and this wonderfully supportive community. Here's to the ending of the stigma. No longer are we living in the shadows!
Also, please subscribe, rate, and review the show to help us spread the word about this awesome free content. Your simple action of rating and reviewing does wonders in helping others find the show. If you listen on iTunes I could really use the bump in their algorithm!
If you have questions you'd like addressed on the show, want to book me to speak at an event, or want to recommend or be a guest on this show, please contact me through any of the social media links below or via email. I am generally open to being on your show too so reach out and let's pod-swap :)
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Friday Jan 28, 2022
Friday Jan 28, 2022
Ep #150 - Another milestone podcast. Sobriety is a journey from the trance-like state of living in the bubble society provides for us and sliding into the reality of the life we are actually living.
You signed up for this. You committed yourself to this journey. Fear, anxiety, stress, self-doubt, and so many more undesirable emotions are awaiting you on this journey. BUT, and this is key, BUT - these emotions were waiting for you in addiction too. Sobriety doesn't take these emotions out of your life, it removes your ability to mute yourself, to push away the undesirable emotions. Now, you live in the real world, where emotions are going to come at you like a tsunami wave, and you aren't able to hide behind the Great Wall of intoxication.
This is something to embrace. This new reality is a blessing. Each time you journey into the core of an undesirable emotion, each time you experience the growth through it - these actions habituate you toward an emotional balanced and grounded life.
You were in the Matrix. Now you are in the Nebuchadnezzar and it is time to master the life skills that will strategically become your arsenal of defense, strength, resiliency, discipline, fortitude, and tenacity.
It is time. It has been time. To live is to shine. Step into the sun!
Just hit play and let's dive in with our open minds, hearts, and energies bringing everyone into the fold - you are in the right place, at the right time...right now.
Stand up, step forward, raise your hand - it's your turn, I will call on you.
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Thank you so much for listening and being a part of my tribe and this wonderfully supportive community. Here's to the ending of the stigma. No longer are we living in the shadows!
Also, please subscribe, rate, and review the show to help us spread the word about this awesome free content. Your simple action of rating and reviewing does wonders in helping others find the show. If you listen on iTunes I could really use the bump in their algorithm!
If you have questions you'd like addressed on the show, want to book me to speak at an event, or want to recommend or be a guest on this show, please contact me through any of the social media links below or via email. I am generally open to being on your show too so reach out and let's pod-swap :)
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Friday Jan 14, 2022
Friday Jan 14, 2022
Ep #149 - Get your popcorn ready because this is a long one. Five years sober and counting and today I bring you a myriad of deliciousness from my brain.
From a brief history of who inspired and sparked me toward this movement of mine, and now ours, and then into why I have embrace NLP as my foundation and utilize it in every facet of my life, let alone my sobriety and recovery.
From personal responsibility, to CTFAR, to embracing the subtle nuances of our beautiful planet and the life I am creating on it - this goes long because this is a celebration of each and every breath as the blessing it is to inhale.
Thank you to Andromeda and back for all of your support, listenership, loyalty, interactions, and for your diligent focus on your version of an ALL THE WAY UP LIFE!
Here's to tomorrow, every tomorrow after that, and another five years - but let me not get ahead of myself...first we celebrate together my sober-versary and how I am who I am today because of sobriety, recovery, and NLP.
Just hit play and let's dive in with our open minds, hearts, and energies bringing everyone into the fold - you are in the right place, at the right time...right now.
Stand up, step forward, raise your hand - it's your turn, I will call on you.
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Thank you so much for listening and being a part of my tribe and this wonderfully supportive community. Here's to the ending of the stigma. No longer are we living in the shadows!
Also, please subscribe, rate, and review the show to help us spread the word about this awesome free content. Your simple action of rating and reviewing does wonders in helping others find the show. If you listen on iTunes I could really use the bump in their algorithm!
If you have questions you'd like addressed on the show, want to book me to speak at an event, or want to recommend or be a guest on this show, please contact me through any of the social media links below or via email. I am generally open to being on your show too so reach out and let's pod-swap :)
Feel free to contact me here for any other reason as well:
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Email: fromsobrietytorecovery@gmail.com
Saturday Jan 08, 2022
Saturday Jan 08, 2022
Ep #148 - When we take on any endeavor in life, is it the act of taking something on or the benefit of introducing this new thing into our life that is what we are really after? Sobriety itself is just the act of no longer getting intoxicated or imbibing or doing something that has become impulsive and has been seducing our lives down the dark slide for a long time.
What we are really after are the benefits of getting sober. The benefits of no drinking or doing drugs or mass eating or gambling, etc.
These benefits are what we are seeking and that is what I have been talking about for the last month - how to set goals and achieve them so you can attain these benefits you hear others talking about.
Sometimes what's next is what you have already been doing and sometimes its something brand new completely - and you will only know which fork in the road to take when you reach the fork through action!
Just hit play and let's dive in with our open minds, hearts, and energies bringing everyone into the fold - you are in the right place, at the right time...right now.
Stand up, step forward, raise your hand - it's your turn, I will call on you.
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Thank you so much for listening and being a part of my tribe and this wonderfully supportive community. Here's to the ending of the stigma. No longer are we living in the shadows!
Also, please subscribe, rate, and review the show to help us spread the word about this awesome free content. Your simple action of rating and reviewing does wonders in helping others find the show. If you listen on iTunes I could really use the bump in their algorithm!
If you have questions you'd like addressed on the show, want to book me to speak at an event, or want to recommend or be a guest on this show, please contact me through any of the social media links below or via email. I am generally open to being on your show too so reach out and let's pod-swap :)
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Saturday Jan 01, 2022
Saturday Jan 01, 2022
Ep #147 - The New Year is upon us. I've been talking about this since December 1st and it is here. We have reached the half way point of our baton passing cycle and it is time to really buckle up and get the momentum of 2022 going. There are infinite ways to achieve sobriety and journey into addiction recovery - I have made that clear since episode one.
How are you seeking your highest self? How are you solidifying your changes into unconsciously habituated behaviors? How have you been embracing the topics on this show and integrating them into your life?
Take time this weekend to really love yourself for being in this community and for seeking a better way of life for yourself. All to often people don't take inventory of their accomplishments and I think it time we do this as a collective.
Just hit play and let's dive in with our open minds, hearts, and energies bringing everyone into the fold - you are in the right place, at the right time...right now.
Stand up, step forward, raise your hand - it's your turn, I will call on you.
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Thank you so much for listening and being a part of my tribe and this wonderfully supportive community. Here's to the ending of the stigma. No longer are we living in the shadows!
Also, please subscribe, rate, and review the show to help us spread the word about this awesome free content. Your simple action of rating and reviewing does wonders in helping others find the show. If you listen on iTunes I could really use the bump in their algorithm!
If you have questions you'd like addressed on the show, want to book me to speak at an event, or want to recommend or be a guest on this show, please contact me through any of the social media links below or via email. I am generally open to being on your show too so reach out and let's pod-swap :)
Feel free to contact me here for any other reason as well:
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Wednesday Dec 29, 2021
Wednesday Dec 29, 2021
Ep #146 - Patience is not the act of waiting, it is the attitude you have while you are waiting. As addicts we lacked patience in many aspects of our lives. Now, as we journey from sober curious, and from sobriety to recovery - we want to be extremely mindful of how we are being patient or impatient in our life.
As we encourage ourselves to add in new, more desirable habits, being mindful of over habit stacking is something to pay attention toward each day. Shooting ourselves out of a cannon, and expecting ourselves to keep up that level of energy, doesn't leave a whole lot of space for us to expand. It's the tortoise and the hare fable playing out in our very own lives.
When we lack impulse control and seek to cannon fire ourselves into new ways of behaving we open the door for us to not keep our promises to ourselves, as the fiery excitement wanes, because we can often, misguidedly, believe that it was that excitement that created the desire to change and not the internal flame of our divine essence.
I know this description might be sounding a bit heady. Feel me on this, how you picture yourself accomplishing goals in your life is not generally how they are actually accomplished.
Let's use our addictive nature for good instead of evil and slowly integrate new habits and behaviors and down the road we will look back and be amazed at our progress - this I can promise because I have been doing it for years with myself, clients, and attendees and have seen the results for myself time and time again
All that you seek is on the other side of risk and that risk today is choosing patience over speed. Impulse control is a real thing and we're going to get even deeper into than we have did in episode #76.
Just hit play and let's dive in with our open minds, hearts, and energies bringing everyone into the fold - you are in the right place, at the right time...right now.
Stand up, step forward, raise your hand - it's your turn, I will call on you.
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Thank you so much for listening and being a part of my tribe and this wonderfully supportive community. Here's to the ending of the stigma. No longer are we living in the shadows!
Also, please subscribe, rate, and review the show to help us spread the word about this awesome free content. Your simple action of rating and reviewing does wonders in helping others find the show. If you listen on iTunes I could really use the bump in their algorithm!
If you have questions you'd like addressed on the show, want to book me to speak at an event, or want to recommend or be a guest on this show, please contact me through any of the social media links below or via email. I am generally open to being on your show too so reach out and let's pod-swap :)
Feel free to contact me here for any other reason as well:
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Sunday Dec 26, 2021
Sunday Dec 26, 2021
Ep #145 - You don't have to know exactly where you are going on this amazing journey we call sobriety to recovery. When you work on yourself, your recovery, your career, self, and relationship spheres daily - you will get somewhere closer to the version of yourself you desire to experience when you look in the mirror.
What I want to focus on today is how you can be the person you desire to be...today.
How are you acting, behaving, and externalizing your internal changes to the external world? Who are you being in pursuit of your highest sense of self.
The idea you can snap your fingers and become the best versions of yourself is ridiculous. So, if you are being an undesirable person to be around while you are pursuing your highest self what makes you think once you get there, and there is quite subjective in itself, you can just snap your fingers and be a "better" person?
Are you being loving, compassionate, kind, and so on as you pursue your healing from and through addiction? Or are you being mean, nasty, spiteful, bitter, and so on?
Who you are being while you get there is mucho importante because you will be "getting there" much longer than you will be "there" because as soon as you get "there" you will already have another "there" that you are going toward.
Sounds riddle-y doesn't it...of course it does, I'm Jesse.
Just hit play and let's dive in with our open minds, hearts, and energies bringing everyone into the fold - you are in the right place, at the right time...right now.
Stand up, step forward, raise your hand - it's your turn, I will call on you.
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Thank you so much for listening and being a part of my tribe and this wonderfully supportive community. Here's to the ending of the stigma. No longer are we living in the shadows!
Also, please subscribe, rate, and review the show to help us spread the word about this awesome free content. Your simple action of rating and reviewing does wonders in helping others find the show. If you listen on iTunes I could really use the bump in their algorithm!
If you have questions you'd like addressed on the show, want to book me to speak at an event, or want to recommend or be a guest on this show, please contact me through any of the social media links below or via email. I am generally open to being on your show too so reach out and let's pod-swap :)
Feel free to contact me here for any other reason as well:
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Thursday Dec 23, 2021
Thursday Dec 23, 2021
Ep #144 - You internalize your goals by attaching them to something meaningful within yourself. If you attach your goals to external validation, from other people, places, or things, then the energy you are willing to put toward that goal can and will dissipate when you do not get the response you desire from your hard work, actions, and behaviors - from the people, places, and things you were trying to impress to begin with.
When you attach your goals to an internal desire for yourself, from yourself, then the internal flame burns eternally. Goals that are attached to internal desires are more easily habituated and transformed into "just the way you live." Less thought and energy are transported to this behavioral action(s) as the brain experiences these actions as habits that it performs without anything more than a cue triggering it.
Internalize your goals and experience the power of desirable habits, right now, today.
Just hit play and let's dive in with our open minds, hearts, and energies bringing everyone into the fold - you are in the right place, at the right time...right now.
Stand up, step forward, raise your hand - it's your turn, I will call on you.
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Thank you so much for listening and being a part of my tribe and this wonderfully supportive community. Here's to the ending of the stigma. No longer are we living in the shadows!
Also, please subscribe, rate, and review the show to help us spread the word about this awesome free content. Your simple action of rating and reviewing does wonders in helping others find the show. If you listen on iTunes I could really use the bump in their algorithm!
If you have questions you'd like addressed on the show, want to book me to speak at an event, or want to recommend or be a guest on this show, please contact me through any of the social media links below or via email. I am generally open to being on your show too so reach out and let's pod-swap :)
Feel free to contact me here for any other reason as well:
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Wednesday Dec 15, 2021
Wednesday Dec 15, 2021
Ep #143 - If we aren't our labels. If we aren't what we've done. If we aren't what we are currently doing. Then who are we? Labels exist to easily identify a person, place, or thing because going around saying, "hello human," or, "hey person," is just silly. Height, weight, skin, eye, or hair color, religion, gender, age, etc., etc., and so on - these are just a few of the many labels we use to label ourselves so we can be more readily identified and boxed in by the world around us.
Same goes with our addiction. Same goes with our careers. How about our living situation or the city we live in? All of these and more become what identifies us to others.
There are masks and there are hats and there are labels and there are identifiers and all of these when added together become what we think we are - but we are so much more.
We are everything and we are nothing. We are perfectly imperfect and conditionally unconditional. If you think these show notes go off in a loop and make no sense then you aint seen nothing yet!
Just hit play and let's dive in with our open minds, hearts, and energies bringing everyone into the fold - you are in the right place, at the right time...right now.
Stand up, step forward, raise your hand - it's your turn, I will call on you.
********************************************
Thank you so much for listening and being a part of my tribe and this wonderfully supportive community. Here's to the ending of the stigma. No longer are we living in the shadows!
Also, please subscribe, rate, and review the show to help us spread the word about this awesome free content. Your simple action of rating and reviewing does wonders in helping others find the show. If you listen on iTunes I could really use the bump in their algorithm!
If you have questions you'd like addressed on the show, want to book me to speak at an event, or want to recommend or be a guest on this show, please contact me through any of the social media links below or via email. I am generally open to being on your show too so reach out and let's pod-swap :)
Feel free to contact me here for any other reason as well:
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Email: fromsobrietytorecovery@gmail.com