Have you ever looked in the mirror and been disappointed with who’s looking back, or even worse, horrified by who you’ve become? After awakening in his bathtub, practically dead and not sure how to face another day, Jesse decided he didn’t want to die - he wanted to live differently. From that moment on, he decided to figure out how to do just that, live differently - and to become the person who utilizes his potential instead of continuously squandering it. In 2017, after two decades of battling addiction, Jesse embarked on a life-altering path toward long-term addiction recovery. This podcast delves into the nuances distinguishing sobriety from long-term recovery. Jesse shares his personal experience, transitioning from the depths of addiction to a proactive journey of change. Discover the power of a growth mindset, the art of processing and releasing emotions, the significance of nurturing relationships, the importance of self-forgiveness, and building a fulfilling life beyond addiction - through the powerful Neuro-Linguistic Programming lens. Jesse’s story is a testament to the transformative power of recovery, providing insights and support for others on their journey. Join Jesse as he navigates the complex yet rewarding terrain of long-term recovery, featuring real-life stories, expert recovery coaching advice, and a supportive community. This podcast is a beacon of hope and guidance for anyone seeking to turn the page from addiction to a life of purpose and joy.
Episodes
Wednesday Feb 01, 2023
Are you behaving like someone in addiction, sobriety, or recovery?
Wednesday Feb 01, 2023
Wednesday Feb 01, 2023
Ep #198 - Lapse and relapse happen well before the drink is drank or the drug is used. Your thoughts, feelings, actions, and behaviors are leading you down a path. Which path is that? One down toward your old, addicted self you already told yourself you're sick and tired of or is it along the flat path of sobriety when you were still feeling out this new life? In a desirable world, your are moving upward, along the trail you are carving for yourself, up your mountain of addiction recovery.
- Are your behaviors indicative of how you behaved in your active addiction?
- Are your behaviors indicative of how you behaved in your early sobriety?
- Are your behaviors indicative of how you desire to behave in your long-term recovery?
In this week's episode we get into how your actions will indicate whether you are behaving congruently with your ambition of growing and evolving through learning, taking action, and evaluating your outcomes so you can crush it more desirably the next time!
Addiction is...
Sobriety is...
Recovery is...
Let's fill in those blanks so you can know right away if your are aware and intentional or oblivious and unaware.
Just hit play and let's dive in with our open minds, hearts, and energies bringing everyone into the fold - you are in the right place, at the right time...right now.
It is time. It has been time. To live is to shine. Step into the SUN.
Stand up, step forward, raise your hand - it's your turn, head the call!
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Let’s spread the word about our show TOGETHER!
Thank you so much for listening and being a part of my tribe and this wonderfully supportive community. Here's to being a part of ending the stigma, No longer are we living in the shadows - Anonymous no more!!
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If you have questions you'd like addressed on the show, want to book me to speak at an event, want to have me as a guest on your show - or simply want to let me know a bit about you, your journey, and how my show has helped you…please contact me through any of the social media links below or via email.
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Email: sobriety@jessemogle.com
Website: https://www.jessemogle.com
From Sobriety to Recovery Podcast: https://www.jessemogle.comfromsobrietytorecovery/
College Success Habits Podcast: https://www.jessemogle.com/collegesuccesshabitspodcast/
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Saturday Jan 28, 2023
Saturday Jan 28, 2023
Ep #197 - I love what Nuero-Linguistic Programming has opened me up to in my life. The way it has guided me to heal my past, shift my mindset in the present, and the life I see ahead for myself - all three of these, my past, present, and future are being painted through the infinite palette that is NLP.
This metaphor is my way of describing how Nuero-Linguistic Programming has helped me and how it can, is, and will guide you toward the person you desire to become.
You are experiencing powerful shifts and growth in your own mindset, the profound new ways of speaking to yourself and others, and the evolution of your internal programming each time you click play on this show.
I desire for you to continue to experience these shifts and from this day forth you have the empowerment of intentional awareness, acceptance of who you were then, who you are now, and who you are evolving toward. Creating your best self is a daily discipline. The standards of your habits will decide the course of your life.
Your recipe was one thing...and now it is different...and this will only change everything.
Welcome to the Soup Metaphor. I am blessed to have you here!
Just hit play and let's dive in with our open minds, hearts, and energies bringing everyone into the fold - you are in the right place, at the right time...right now.
It is time. It has been time. To live is to shine. Step into the SUN.
Stand up, step forward, raise your hand - it's your turn, head the call!
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I know you enjoy the show, so PLEASE SUBSCRIBE, RATE, AND REVIEW on your preferred streaming app or click this link to review on iTunes - Your simple action of rating and reviewing does wonders in helping others find the show.
Let’s spread the word about our show TOGETHER!
Thank you so much for listening and being a part of my tribe and this wonderfully supportive community. Here's to being a part of ending the stigma, No longer are we living in the shadows - Anonymous no more!!
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I know you enjoy the show, so please subscribe, rate, and click this link to review on iTunes - even if you listen on Spotify or others apps. Help me spread the word about my show! Your simple action of rating and reviewing does wonders in helping others find the show.
If you have questions you'd like addressed on the show, want to book me to speak at an event, want to have me as a guest on your show - or simply want to let me know a bit about you, your journey, and how my show has helped you…please contact me through any of the social media links below or via email.
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Email: sobriety@jessemogle.com
Website: https://www.jessemogle.com
From Sobriety to Recovery Podcast: https://www.jessemogle.comfromsobrietytorecovery/
College Success Habits Podcast: https://www.jessemogle.com/collegesuccesshabitspodcast/
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Wednesday Jan 18, 2023
You are Energy w/ Elesia Chéree Ashkenazy
Wednesday Jan 18, 2023
Wednesday Jan 18, 2023
Ep #196 - Energy is all around us. Emotions are energy in motion. You know how you have felt blocked, like something inside you is holding you back, or just doesn't feel right. The main problem is that most of us attempt to reconcile this internal charge through our rational thinking mind, or if addiction still steers us, we hit the bottle, straw, or pipe hard.
We all know when we feel life is in flow. We know what that feeling of flying on cloud nine is - and no I'm not referencing the high we get off intoxicants. I am talking about that universally known energy we feel inside of us when the restraints are pulled off and we can move ourselves in a way that evokes our divinity and unconscious essence.
Imagine if you knew the secrets of unlocking your energetic blocks. Heck, let's all live in a world where we inner-stand that energy isn't just real, it's all around us, Energy IS US, and directs us like a conductor does an orchestra. Let the musical energy of life be your guide. Silence yourself and you will hear your energy calling you.
Like in the Avatar movies, there is a light inside us all and it touches everyone and everything. The butterfly effect starts with you. Will you move your body and bring warmth to yourself or will you continue down a path you already know you are sick and tired of being sick and tired of?
The answers to these ponderings may just be on the other side of my conversation with Elesia...
Just hit play and let's dive in with our open minds, hearts, and energies bringing everyone into the fold - you are in the right place, at the right time...right now.
It is time. It has been time. To live is to shine. Step into the SUN.
Stand up, step forward, raise your hand - it's your turn, head the call!
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I know you enjoy the show, so PLEASE SUBSCRIBE, RATE, AND REVIEW on your preferred streaming app or click this link to review on iTunes - Your simple action of rating and reviewing does wonders in helping others find the show.
Let’s spread the word about our show TOGETHER!
Thank you so much for listening and being a part of my tribe and this wonderfully supportive community. Here's to being a part of ending the stigma, No longer are we living in the shadows - Anonymous no more!!
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Wanna support me, my show, and my goal of reaching 1,117,117 humans seeking their way from the darkness into the light?!?!
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I know you enjoy the show, so please subscribe, rate, and click this link to review on iTunes - even if you listen on Spotify or others apps. Help me spread the word about my show! Your simple action of rating and reviewing does wonders in helping others find the show.
If you have questions you'd like addressed on the show, want to book me to speak at an event, want to have me as a guest on your show - or simply want to let me know a bit about you, your journey, and how my show has helped you…please contact me through any of the social media links below or via email.
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Facebook: https://facebook.com/fromsobrietytorecovery
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Email: sobriety@jessemogle.com
Website: https://www.jessemogle.com
From Sobriety to Recovery Podcast: https://www.jessemogle.comfromsobrietytorecovery/
College Success Habits Podcast: https://www.jessemogle.com/collegesuccesshabitspodcast/
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Friday Jan 13, 2023
6 YEARS SOBER!!!
Friday Jan 13, 2023
Friday Jan 13, 2023
EP #195 - Today is six years in the making. Six years ago I woke up and swore to the heavens that I would never be intoxicated again. It's been quite the journey, four of them with you, and in this episode I will go over some of the most amazing things I have learned about myself - and in the process I hope that it encourages you to continue on your own journey!!
Much love to all of you for being a part of this show, my journey, and this beautiful adventure we are collectively on...LIFE!!!
Now let's get to the show :)
Just hit play and let's dive in with our open minds, hearts, and energies bringing everyone into the fold - you are in the right place, at the right time...right now.
It is time. It has been time. To live is to shine. Step into the SUN.
Stand up, step forward, raise your hand - it's your turn, head the call!
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I know you enjoy the show, so PLEASE SUBSCRIBE, RATE, AND REVIEW on your preferred streaming app or click this link to review on iTunes - Your simple action of rating and reviewing does wonders in helping others find the show.
Let’s spread the word about our show TOGETHER!
Thank you so much for listening and being a part of my tribe and this wonderfully supportive community. Here's to being a part of ending the stigma, No longer are we living in the shadows - Anonymous no more!!
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Buy me a coffee to keep me going or some gas for my work in the field -
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Be a Patron on Patreon!
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I know you enjoy the show, so please subscribe, rate, and click this link to review on iTunes - even if you listen on Spotify or others apps. Help me spread the word about my show! Your simple action of rating and reviewing does wonders in helping others find the show.
If you have questions you'd like addressed on the show, want to book me to speak at an event, want to have me as a guest on your show - or simply want to let me know a bit about you, your journey, and how my show has helped you…please contact me through any of the social media links below or via email.
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Set up a complimentary 30-minute call with me: callcoachjesse.com
Tik Tok: http://www.tiktok.com/@jessemogle
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Facebook: https://facebook.com/fromsobrietytorecovery
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LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/jessemogle/
Email: sobriety@jessemogle.com
Website: https://www.jessemogle.com
From Sobriety to Recovery Podcast: https://www.jessemogle.comfromsobrietytorecovery/
College Success Habits Podcast: https://www.jessemogle.com/collegesuccesshabitspodcast/
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Friday Jan 06, 2023
What to do to make it through your first day, week, and month of sobriety
Friday Jan 06, 2023
Friday Jan 06, 2023
Ep #194 - The decisions you make right out of the gate will greatly help you navigate the choppy waters those first few days and weeks will storm your way. When you decide to fully commit to sobriety it is going to feel different than the previous times when you shouted at yourself, "never again," after a hard night.
In this week's episode I discuss the Top-10 things you are going to want to figure out and set your sights on. From getting support to taking personal accountability - the tools you need to not just make it through but straight crush your first month are located in this episode!
Just hit play and let's dive in with our open minds, hearts, and energies bringing everyone into the fold - you are in the right place, at the right time...right now.
It is time. It has been time. To live is to shine. Step into the SUN.
Stand up, step forward, raise your hand - it's your turn, head the call!
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I know you enjoy the show, so PLEASE SUBSCRIBE, RATE, AND REVIEW on your preferred streaming app or click this link to review on iTunes - Your simple action of rating and reviewing does wonders in helping others find the show.
Let’s spread the word about our show TOGETHER!
Thank you so much for listening and being a part of my tribe and this wonderfully supportive community. Here's to being a part of ending the stigma, No longer are we living in the shadows - Anonymous no more!!
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CLICK HERE FOR ALL LINKS RELATED TO THE SHOW!!!
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Join the Tribe through The HUB:
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Check out my Store! It's like an inventory of things I sell!!
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Wanna support me, my show, and my goal of reaching 1,117,117 humans seeking their way from the darkness into the light?!?!
Buy me a coffee to keep me going or some gas for my work in the field -
Buy me a coffee, gallon of gas, or a bite to eat!
Be a Patron on Patreon!
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I know you enjoy the show, so please subscribe, rate, and click this link to review on iTunes - even if you listen on Spotify or others apps. Help me spread the word about my show! Your simple action of rating and reviewing does wonders in helping others find the show.
If you have questions you'd like addressed on the show, want to book me to speak at an event, want to have me as a guest on your show - or simply want to let me know a bit about you, your journey, and how my show has helped you…please contact me through any of the social media links below or via email.
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Set up a complimentary 30-minute call with me: callcoachjesse.com
Tik Tok: http://www.tiktok.com/@jessemogle
Instagram: https://instagram.com/fromsobrietytorecovery
Facebook: https://facebook.com/fromsobrietytorecovery
Twitter: https://twitter.com/jessemogle
LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/jessemogle/
Email: sobriety@jessemogle.com
Website: https://www.jessemogle.com
From Sobriety to Recovery Podcast: https://www.jessemogle.comfromsobrietytorecovery/
College Success Habits Podcast: https://www.jessemogle.com/collegesuccesshabitspodcast/
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Friday Dec 30, 2022
Power Words, Identity Statements, Power Sentences
Friday Dec 30, 2022
Friday Dec 30, 2022
Ep #193 - We choose to attach meaning, feelings, and emotions to words. We use words to paint our reality, that was formed internally, to the external world. Well, we do a whole lot of internal jabbering too don't we?
I use certain words intentionally. Power words are my way have anchoring a feeling into a word so I can evoke an emotional state when I need it. These power words become the foundation for my empowering identity statements. From there, I build out power sentences so I fully understand how I am demonstrating to myself I am living my life with the power words and identity statements as my core fuel for personal growth and development.
In this week's episode I will walk you through my process of building out your power word list and then I will talk you through how I talk myself through the process of culling the herd into the singular word that fuels my spheres and pillars.
Just hit play and let's dive in with our open minds, hearts, and energies bringing everyone into the fold - you are in the right place, at the right time...right now.
It is time. It has been time. To live is to shine. Step into the SUN.
Stand up, step forward, raise your hand - it's your turn, head the call!
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I know you enjoy the show, so PLEASE SUBSCRIBE, RATE, AND REVIEW on your preferred streaming app or click this link to review on iTunes - Your simple action of rating and reviewing does wonders in helping others find the show.
Let’s spread the word about our show TOGETHER!
Thank you so much for listening and being a part of my tribe and this wonderfully supportive community. Here's to being a part of ending the stigma, No longer are we living in the shadows - Anonymous no more!!
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CLICK HERE FOR ALL LINKS RELATED TO THE SHOW!!!
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Join the Tribe through The HUB:
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Check out my Store! It's like an inventory of things I sell!!
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Wanna support me, my show, and my goal of reaching 1,117,117 humans seeking their way from the darkness into the light?!?!
Buy me a coffee to keep me going or some gas for my work in the field -
Buy me a coffee, gallon of gas, or a bite to eat!
Be a Patron on Patreon!
********************************************
I know you enjoy the show, so please subscribe, rate, and click this link to review on iTunes - even if you listen on Spotify or others apps. Help me spread the word about my show! Your simple action of rating and reviewing does wonders in helping others find the show.
If you have questions you'd like addressed on the show, want to book me to speak at an event, want to have me as a guest on your show - or simply want to let me know a bit about you, your journey, and how my show has helped you…please contact me through any of the social media links below or via email.
********************************************
Set up a complimentary 30-minute call with me: callcoachjesse.com
Tik Tok: http://www.tiktok.com/@jessemogle
Instagram: https://instagram.com/fromsobrietytorecovery
Facebook: https://facebook.com/fromsobrietytorecovery
Twitter: https://twitter.com/jessemogle
LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/jessemogle/
Email: sobriety@jessemogle.com
Website: https://www.jessemogle.com
From Sobriety to Recovery Podcast: https://www.jessemogle.comfromsobrietytorecovery/
College Success Habits Podcast: https://www.jessemogle.com/collegesuccesshabitspodcast/
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Saturday Dec 24, 2022
What kind of person do you want to be?
Saturday Dec 24, 2022
Saturday Dec 24, 2022
Ep #192 - Are you going to be the kind of person who shares with those you love what you are going through? Are you going to be intentional when playing with your kids or showing love to your partner? Are you going to be kind, and understanding, and empathetic when you interact with people you are seeking to connect and bond with?
You are on a journey. You are on a magnificent adventure. Your life has been whatever it has been and it has lead you here. Now, accepting the here you are currently at might be something you are still growing into, and that is a beautiful thing. What we are going to discuss today is being intentional about who you are being as you grow and evolve in your life's journey.
Being intentional opens you up to responding to your circumstances rather than reacting. It allows you to decide your actions before you take them.
Most of the time humans just react to what is happening around them. Then they wonder why a situation went sideways AND THEN they ruminate on what they "could've" done. Being intentional with your actions and behaviors will not completely remove the ruminating but it will certainly put you in the seat of personal responsibility for the events that played out.
Your keen awareness and involvement are essential. You are blessed to be in such a place in your life where you get to actionably choose your path rather than half-hazardly falling ass-backward into it.
Just hit play and let's dive in with our open minds, hearts, and energies bringing everyone into the fold - you are in the right place, at the right time...right now.
It is time. It has been time. To live is to shine. Step into the SUN.
Stand up, step forward, raise your hand - it's your turn, I will call on you.
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I know you enjoy the show, so please subscribe, rate, and click this link to review on iTunes - even if you listen on Spotify or others apps. Help me spread the word about my show! Your simple action of rating and reviewing does wonders in helping others find the show.
Thank you so much for listening and being a part of my tribe and this wonderfully supportive community. Here's to being a part of ending the stigma, No longer are we living in the shadows - Anonymous no more!!
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Join the Tribe through The HUB:
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Check out my Store! It's like an inventory of things I sell!!
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Wanna support me, my show, and my goal of reaching 1,117,117 humans seeking their way from the darkness into the light?!?!
Buy me a coffee to keep me going or some gas for my work in the field -
Be a Patron on Patreon!
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If you have questions you'd like addressed on the show, want to book me to speak at an event, want to have me as a guest on your show - or simply want to let me know a bit about you, your journey, and how my show has helped you…please contact me through any of the social media links below or via email.
********************************************
Set up a complimentary 30-minute call with me: callcoachjesse.com
Tik Tok: http://www.tiktok.com/@jessemogle
Instagram: https://instagram.com/fromsobrietytorecovery
Facebook: https://facebook.com/fromsobrietytorecovery
Twitter: https://twitter.com/jessemogle
LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/jessemogle/
Email: sobriety@jessemogle.com
Website: https://www.jessemogle.com
From Sobriety to Recovery Podcast: https://www.jessemogle.comfromsobrietytorecovery/
College Success Habits Podcast: https://www.jessemogle.com/collegesuccesshabitspodcast/
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Wednesday Dec 14, 2022
Forgiving your past self and contolling your anger
Wednesday Dec 14, 2022
Wednesday Dec 14, 2022
Ep #191 - You are doing the best you can with the resources you have. You were doing the best you could then with the resources you had then. Coping mechanisms around trauma, grief, and suffering are resources. Sure, binge drinking and swallowing anything that remotely promises a buzz is not the best way to cope with negative events and emotions - but it was the resources we had at the time. Yeah, other people handled their stuff the way they handled their stuff - and what they did versus what you did is not for us to spend anymore time ruminating upon.
It is time you forgive yourself. Release the anger you feel toward yourself, toward those you believe wronged you, toward the world in general. You can drink all the poison you want hoping it will hurt them and it won't. Trash them to their loved ones, to their circle, to the socials - and still the pain inside of you won't subside.
Forgiveness is for you. Releasing anger is for you. These are new resources you are cultivating and today we are going to teach you a few!
When you feel a negative emotion: picture what you are choosing to make you angry...
1. Make it fuzzy and/or blurry (like when you take an out of focus picture)
2. Drain the color out of the picture so it is black and white (see it go down the drain)
3. Turn down the lights in the picture (like a dimmer switch in a room)
4. Push that picture off into outer space and then pop it with your finger so it explodes into ashes
5. repeat this process over and over again until the negative emotion dulls and you feel the balance inside yourself being restored.
When you keep going back to a traumatic memory:
1. picture it in your mind
2. if you are seeing it from your point of view step outside yourself and watch yourself in this memory
3. What lesson, wisdom, or experience can you take from this memory?
4. Whatever happened in this memory release it from yourself and leave it there, in the past where it belongs. The suffering, the trauma, the heartbreak, the pain - leave it there in the past and bring the wisdom and lesson forward with you.
5. Come back to the present and see if you feel differently, if you talk about the memory to yourself differently.
6. If not then the lesson and wisdom are still back there so start back at step one and repeat.
* the key to keep in hand here is that whatever you experienced then, even if it was traumatic and abusive, there is a lesson to be learned. It could be that you were young, defenseless, and unable to help yourself in this moment. Now you are older, wiser, and stronger. Now you can defend and take care of yourself. Again, the key here is that regardless of what happened, regardless of fault or not, that was then, this was now, and you have more resources now than you had back then.
Just hit play and let's dive in with our open minds, hearts, and energies bringing everyone into the fold - you are in the right place, at the right time...right now.
It is time. It has been time. To live is to shine. Step into the SUN.
Stand up, step forward, raise your hand - it's your turn, I will call on you.
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Thank you so much for listening and being a part of my tribe and this wonderfully supportive community. Here's to being a part of ending the stigma, No longer are we living in the shadows - Anonymous no more!!
********************************************
Join the Tribe through The HUB:
********************************************
Check out my Store! It's like an inventory of things I sell!!
********************************************
Wanna support me, my show, and my goal of reaching 1,117,117 humans seeking their way from the darkness into the light?!?!
Buy me a coffee to keep me going or some gas for my work in the field -
Buy me a coffee, gallon of gas, or a bite to eat!
Be a Patron on Patreon!
********************************************
I know you enjoy the show, so please subscribe, rate, and click this link to review on iTunes - even if you listen on Spotify or others apps. Help me spread the word about my show! Your simple action of rating and reviewing does wonders in helping others find the show.
If you have questions you'd like addressed on the show, want to book me to speak at an event, want to have me as a guest on your show - or simply want to let me know a bit about you, your journey, and how my show has helped you…please contact me through any of the social media links below or via email.
********************************************
Set up a complimentary 30-minute call with me: callcoachjesse.com
Tik Tok: http://www.tiktok.com/@jessemogle
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Thursday Dec 08, 2022
Good, Grow, Great! ”Failure” as feedback!
Thursday Dec 08, 2022
Thursday Dec 08, 2022
Ep #190 - There is no failure, there is only feedback. This is a rule of life I learned in my neuro linguistic programming training. Failure doesn't actually exist. It's a judgement placed on an outcome and is very subjective to each individuals perspective.
One person's "failure" is another person's "success." Getting up before noon might be a "failure" to someone who eats 10Ks before sunrise and is a huge "success" for someone who is detoxing or experiencing depression.
A more beneficial perspective to experience after anything you do is to shift the judgement of it as good or bad, because that is you deciding whether the outcome achieved your predetermined expectations, and instead asking yourself these three questions.
Where did I do good?
Where can I grow?
What was great about this experience?
When you choose to use this method instead of the human mind's knee-jerk reaction to focus on the "bad" you open yourself up to the growth that comes from each and every circumstance you experience. I know it's helping me in my journey so it's time I introduce it to your sobriety and recovery and our collective adventure as well.
Just hit play and let's dive in with our open minds, hearts, and energies bringing everyone into the fold - you are in the right place, at the right time...right now.
It is time. It has been time. To live is to shine. Step into the SUN.
Stand up, step forward, raise your hand - it's your turn, I will call on you.
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Thursday Dec 01, 2022
Stigma Part 1: If I can do it, so can you
Thursday Dec 01, 2022
Thursday Dec 01, 2022
Ep #189 - Stigmatizing language is happening all around us and it can rear its ugly head in such a way that you won't even notice it happening.
"If I can do it, so can you" is one you have undoubtedly heard before. "When I was a kid, I did this and that, and I didn't become an addict," is another I have heard many a time.
"You don't even know what a bad childhood is," and, "they had a great childhood, what's their problem?" are others I am very attuned to catching when parents talk about their child's substance use disorder or compare their childhood to their kid's childhood.
Minimizing another person's childhood and their lived experiences by comparing their life to someone else's is just plain rude. Comparing your life to another's is exhausting and when you or someone else does this you, or they, are not comparing apples to apples - you are deleting out a ton of information you are not privy to. There are things you do not know about that other person. What their adverse childhood experiences were may even sound similar to yours, or someone else's, but they were not exactly the same, and even if they do sound exactly the same, there is no way they are EXACTLY the same. Thus comparing your life to someone else's isn't serving you are their highest sense of self or human needs.
"If I can do it, so can you," is saying to someone else, "no matter what you went through, I had it worse, so what's your issue?" I know it can sound like you are uplifting the other person, and they might even think they are taking it that way, but the unconscious mind isn't hearing it that way - it can read between the lines, and what it is hearing is comparative deletion, and its hurtful.
Let's get into this because I think after this episode you will hear the stigmatizing language and now you will know how you can shift it so that you are listening without judgement.
Just hit play and let's dive in with our open minds, hearts, and energies bringing everyone into the fold - you are in the right place, at the right time...right now.
It is time. It has been time. To live is to shine. Step into the SUN.
Stand up, step forward, raise your hand - it's your turn, I will call on you.
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Thank you so much for listening and being a part of my tribe and this wonderfully supportive community. Here's to being a part of ending the stigma, No longer are we living in the shadows - Anonymous no more!!
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